I'm on the plane with all 3 of my boys (husband and 2 kids) on my way home from vacationing in Gig Harbor, WA. We had a fabulous visit with my husband's side of the family. We saw 14 different family members all together ranging in ages from 2 to 80+. We ate a lot, shared some wine, old stories, new stories, watched the Olympics and did some water activities (the house is on waterfront property on Puget Sound).
It was everything it was supposed to be. We are a tight family and we have a lot of fun together. My father-in-law is battling lung cancer and I had not seen him since his diagnosis. It was great to see him and finally get to hug him. The distance between Gig Harbor and San Carlos has seemed much greater than it usually does since his diagnosis. We wish we could be closer to support him and to care for his caregiver (my mother-in-law) more.
I was able to talk to various family members about my recent contact with my Dad and they really helped me think through the what if's and what's nexts. I could not go through this journey without each and every one of them.
There were several evenings that I was able to spend some time alone out on the deck by the water's edge, watching the sun set over the Olympic mountains and thinking about my Dad. I think that I found some patience deep inside and will give him whatever space and time he needs to absorb the news that I'm here and wanting to meet him.
And now it is back to the daily life that I call my own.
School starts for Payton next week and for Darren the week after. I'm back to work tomorrow and Dan is on the tail end of closing one deal and about to put another house on the market. We are all very busy, to say the least.
I want to get back to posting regularly here. My sister-in-law mentioned that she had enjoyed reading about what we were planning for dinner each week a while back. Those posts were called "What's Cookin'?" and think I like that idea. It did help me maintain a more disciplined schedule with meal planning.
I will also be "in training" with my son, Payton. He starts his workouts for baseball soon and wants to be in better shape before they begin and after eating so much on this vacation and just generally being "off the wagon" of healthy eating, I want to get back on track. On top of that, a good friend of mine suggested that regular exercise (endorphin rush) would help lift my spirits as I go through the emotions of contacting my Dad. Good advice and I will take it.
So look for the return of "What's Cookin'" posted each Sunday beginning in a few days and for posts about my journey to a healthier lifestyle. My hope is that the two will go hand in hand and that my posted menus reflect the healthier choices. In the beginning they may not as I don't expect everyone in the house to eat the way I will. We all have different food needs and that will be reflected I'm sure.
After work tomorrow it is out for school clothes shoping with Payton. He goes in for his senior portraits on Thursday.
We've only just begun.